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	<title>Comments on: Sometimes there&#8217;s a fine line between bravery and foolishness&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Liara Covert</title>
		<link>http://thewindingpath.net/2007/10/11/sometimes-theres-a-fine-line-between-bravery-and-foolishness/#comment-3578</link>
		<dc:creator>Liara Covert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 05:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think its great when you take opportunities to raise awareness about something you believe in. It takes courage to separate yourself from the prospect of external judgement and your own self-defeating criticism or fear.  In the end, what matters is how you feel about your choices and your overall self-acceptance.  This has nothing to do how people evaluate your performance.  It simply begins and ends with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think its great when you take opportunities to raise awareness about something you believe in. It takes courage to separate yourself from the prospect of external judgement and your own self-defeating criticism or fear.  In the end, what matters is how you feel about your choices and your overall self-acceptance.  This has nothing to do how people evaluate your performance.  It simply begins and ends with you.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 01:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your wonderful comments everyone :)

Suzie, harm minimisation is the perspective that those who are already involved in potentially harmful activities can benefit greatly from reduction or elimination of any harm that might occur. In relation to drug taking it's a movement which promotes acknowledging that people are taking drugs so, while not making it easy for them we should do all we can to make sure their lack of awareness of the dangers (and simple "drugs are bad" messages do not increase awareness) don't end up hurting them.

You're right on both counts. Many people don't realise that different people react differently to drugs, but also that the same person can react differently to the same drug on different occasions. Any experience which includes as much of a mental side as drugs will vary a lot depending on the state of mind and body of the person taking them.

So there are two components we can advise upon, the physical side (what effects drugs have on the body, interactions between different drugs, general advice e.g., keep hydrated but don't drink too much), and the mental side (the importance of set and setting, psychological addiction, peer group pressure). We can't advise on what &lt;em&gt;will&lt;/em&gt; happen, but we can advise on what's likely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your wonderful comments everyone <img src='http://thewindingpath.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Suzie, harm minimisation is the perspective that those who are already involved in potentially harmful activities can benefit greatly from reduction or elimination of any harm that might occur. In relation to drug taking it&#8217;s a movement which promotes acknowledging that people are taking drugs so, while not making it easy for them we should do all we can to make sure their lack of awareness of the dangers (and simple &#8220;drugs are bad&#8221; messages do not increase awareness) don&#8217;t end up hurting them.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right on both counts. Many people don&#8217;t realise that different people react differently to drugs, but also that the same person can react differently to the same drug on different occasions. Any experience which includes as much of a mental side as drugs will vary a lot depending on the state of mind and body of the person taking them.</p>
<p>So there are two components we can advise upon, the physical side (what effects drugs have on the body, interactions between different drugs, general advice e.g., keep hydrated but don&#8217;t drink too much), and the mental side (the importance of set and setting, psychological addiction, peer group pressure). We can&#8217;t advise on what <em>will</em> happen, but we can advise on what&#8217;s likely.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzie</title>
		<link>http://thewindingpath.net/2007/10/11/sometimes-theres-a-fine-line-between-bravery-and-foolishness/#comment-2511</link>
		<dc:creator>Suzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 12:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A very interesting post...

What is harm-minimisation? I think different people have different experiences with different drugs, and it's almost impossible to advise upon? Any attempt to change perspective - drugs, meditation, fasting, shamanic journeying - can have negative consequences as well as positive ones?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very interesting post&#8230;</p>
<p>What is harm-minimisation? I think different people have different experiences with different drugs, and it&#8217;s almost impossible to advise upon? Any attempt to change perspective - drugs, meditation, fasting, shamanic journeying - can have negative consequences as well as positive ones?</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 01:13:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing this story Mark.  Although you only hint at it in this post one of the things I find the bravest about you is your willingness to stand alone if need be in both the decisions you make and the consequences of those decisions.  You are not someone who is easily led - anywhere.  I find your response to such a bad experience quite telling - you choose to join a forum to help other people.  

Ultimately how could your parents (or your friends over here) not respect the choices you make, including sharing this story, as they are such an integral part of what makes you you.

Much respect!
Jenni  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing this story Mark.  Although you only hint at it in this post one of the things I find the bravest about you is your willingness to stand alone if need be in both the decisions you make and the consequences of those decisions.  You are not someone who is easily led - anywhere.  I find your response to such a bad experience quite telling - you choose to join a forum to help other people.  </p>
<p>Ultimately how could your parents (or your friends over here) not respect the choices you make, including sharing this story, as they are such an integral part of what makes you you.</p>
<p>Much respect!<br />
Jenni  <img src='http://thewindingpath.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Claire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Claire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 13:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I should at least add that that's a positive 'wow' in my first comment, and John and Lorraine have summed up my sentiments nicely. I have some questions for you, which I may save for the 20th. :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I should at least add that that&#8217;s a positive &#8216;wow&#8217; in my first comment, and John and Lorraine have summed up my sentiments nicely. I have some questions for you, which I may save for the 20th. <img src='http://thewindingpath.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Lorraine Cohen</title>
		<link>http://thewindingpath.net/2007/10/11/sometimes-theres-a-fine-line-between-bravery-and-foolishness/#comment-2499</link>
		<dc:creator>Lorraine Cohen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 12:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I echo John's post Mark

Who doesn't have things in their past they might wish they could do over or never have done at all? I do. Keeping secrets is deadly to feeling good about yourself and being real in the world. Courage to stand up for ones's values and convictions in the face of negative ramifications and potential loss definitely takes courage. I too salute you for doing something for the experience, learning from it and using what you learned to move forward in your life. Who better to talk about something they're passionate about than someone who has "been there and done that?"

I don't think we give ourselves enough credit for what we do and who we are. We get so bogged down in our own dramas and judgments we forget to to acknowledge our courage to show up - to ourselves and to others. 

To me, it's all about integrity. At the end of the day, you must face yourself. I hope you like what you see in the mirror. I sure do!

Thanks for playing. This meme is going wonderful places. I'm thrilled. 

Hmmm - I'm thinking of revisiting my original post and adding a bit more.


Cheers,
Lorraine</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I echo John&#8217;s post Mark</p>
<p>Who doesn&#8217;t have things in their past they might wish they could do over or never have done at all? I do. Keeping secrets is deadly to feeling good about yourself and being real in the world. Courage to stand up for ones&#8217;s values and convictions in the face of negative ramifications and potential loss definitely takes courage. I too salute you for doing something for the experience, learning from it and using what you learned to move forward in your life. Who better to talk about something they&#8217;re passionate about than someone who has &#8220;been there and done that?&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think we give ourselves enough credit for what we do and who we are. We get so bogged down in our own dramas and judgments we forget to to acknowledge our courage to show up - to ourselves and to others. </p>
<p>To me, it&#8217;s all about integrity. At the end of the day, you must face yourself. I hope you like what you see in the mirror. I sure do!</p>
<p>Thanks for playing. This meme is going wonderful places. I&#8217;m thrilled. </p>
<p>Hmmm - I&#8217;m thinking of revisiting my original post and adding a bit more.</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Lorraine</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny and Erin &#8212; a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://thewindingpath.net/2007/10/11/sometimes-theres-a-fine-line-between-bravery-and-foolishness/#comment-2498</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny and Erin &#8212; a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding&#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 12:04:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Allison at Technology for Living Understanding Courage Soul Bravery, by Pamir at Reiki Help Blog Sometimes There&#8217;s a Fine Line Between Bravery and Foolishness, by Mark Lapierre at The Winding Path   Share this article with others: These icons link to social [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Allison at Technology for Living Understanding Courage Soul Bravery, by Pamir at Reiki Help Blog Sometimes There&#8217;s a Fine Line Between Bravery and Foolishness, by Mark Lapierre at The Winding Path   Share this article with others: These icons link to social [...]</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 11:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is proof positive of Lorraine's premise: Often we don't give ourselves enough credit for what we do. To have the courage of your convictions and actually speak up when it has the potential to help people regardless of the difficulties it may bring to you is a rare kind of courage these days, and I salute you for it. I can't call this foolishness, because you were clearly aware of all the implications, and still moved forward. 

Having the courage to actually write about it is also very impressive to me. When I think about this meme, it seems to be an open challenge to dig deep and display moments in our lives that we might otherwise keep buried, perhaps even moments that we might keep from ourselves. Bringing them up and sharing them with the world shows that courage, and I would like to thank you for trusting your readership with this inspiring story. I can't speak for everyone, but my opinion of you went up a couple of notches, not down.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is proof positive of Lorraine&#8217;s premise: Often we don&#8217;t give ourselves enough credit for what we do. To have the courage of your convictions and actually speak up when it has the potential to help people regardless of the difficulties it may bring to you is a rare kind of courage these days, and I salute you for it. I can&#8217;t call this foolishness, because you were clearly aware of all the implications, and still moved forward. </p>
<p>Having the courage to actually write about it is also very impressive to me. When I think about this meme, it seems to be an open challenge to dig deep and display moments in our lives that we might otherwise keep buried, perhaps even moments that we might keep from ourselves. Bringing them up and sharing them with the world shows that courage, and I would like to thank you for trusting your readership with this inspiring story. I can&#8217;t speak for everyone, but my opinion of you went up a couple of notches, not down.</p>
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		<title>By: Claire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Claire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 08:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. That's all I'm saying for now. Fine line, indeed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. That&#8217;s all I&#8217;m saying for now. Fine line, indeed!</p>
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